As I settle back into the rhythm of Canadian life after my recent trip home to South Africa, I find myself marveling at the depth of my emotional connection to the place where I grew up. Stepping off the plane at O.R Tambo International Airport, the sights, sounds, and smells instantly enveloped me in a warm embrace of familiarity.
The airport ground staff greeted us in the comforting accents of home, their smiles as inviting as ever. It was a small gesture, but it spoke volumes. Navigating through the airport felt like second nature, a routine I had mastered through countless journeys before. Reclaiming our bags was a breeze, but the real highlight was yet to come – the warm embrace of our parents and close friends, welcoming us home with open arms.
Despite knowing that our visit was only for a month, it felt like we were returning after a long holiday. Our time in South Africa was a whirlwind of activity – filled with visits from loved ones, appointments, birthdays, social gatherings, and endless to-do lists. Yet, amidst the hustle and bustle, there was an undeniable sense of ease.
Navigating the streets of Johannesburg, a city often characterized by its complexities and challenges, felt surprisingly effortless. While I’m well aware of the need to be extra cautious in South Africa, there was none of the anxiety that sometimes accompanies navigating unfamiliar territory. It’s not about safety per se; it’s about the comfort of the known.
Reflecting on my experiences, I couldn’t help but draw comparisons to life in Canada. Undoubtedly, Canada is a safer and more orderly place compared to South Africa. Yet, despite having lived here for a year and a half and even obtaining my driver’s license, there’s still a lingering sense of unease when venturing into new places on my own.
In South Africa, there’s a sense of confidence that comes from knowing the lay of the land, from navigating the streets you grew up on and the neighborhoods you know like the back of your hand. It’s a feeling that’s hard to replicate elsewhere, no matter how safe or organized the surroundings may be.
Ultimately, my trip back home reminded me that while South Africa may have its share of challenges, it’s also a place filled with warmth, hospitality, thoughtful experiences and a deep sense of belonging. It’s where my roots are firmly planted, where family and friends await with open arms, and where the familiar sights and sounds evoke a sense of nostalgia like no other.
Key Learnings from my time back home:
- Family Bonds: Home is where family resides, and the bonds formed within its walls are irreplaceable. Spending time with loved ones reminded me of the importance of cherishing these connections and nurturing relationships that stand the test of time.
- Cultural Identity: Returning to South Africa reignited my appreciation for the rich tapestry of cultures that make up the country’s vibrant mosaic. From the diverse languages spoken to the culinary delights enjoyed, home is a melting pot of traditions and customs that shape our identity and enrich our lives.
- Resilience and Adaptability: Life in South Africa has taught me resilience in the face of adversity and adaptability in ever-changing circumstances. Despite the challenges that may exist, there’s a spirit of perseverance and ingenuity that permeates the culture, inspiring hope and resilience in the face of adversity.
- Community Connection: Home is where you’re part of a community, where neighbors become friends and strangers feel like family. The sense of belonging and camaraderie I experienced reinforced the value of community connection and the importance of coming together to support one another in times of need.
- Appreciation for Simplicity: In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it’s easy to lose sight of the simple pleasures that bring joy and fulfillment. Whether it’s sharing a meal with loved ones, taking a drive through familiar streets, or enjoying the warmth of a sunny day, home teaches us to appreciate life’s simple pleasures and find beauty in the everyday moments.
- Sense of Belonging: Above all, home is where you belong. It’s where you feel accepted, understood, and valued for who you are.
As I settle back into life in Canada, I carry with me the memories of my time in South Africa- a reminder that no matter where life may take me, home will always be where the heart is. And for that, I am eternally grateful.
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